It is not. You are confused. They are quite apart. As I wrote in my invitation
Here is the link to that page.
http://www.europa-universalis.com/forum/showthread.php?t=243338&page=1
This is entirely inapplicable to the word "nice" as described by me above in the quote. As you can see I have defined what I mean with "nice" so there is no need for you to speculate about any other interpretation.
This is ridiculous. I ask for nothing but that you behave like when you go home to some friends for a nice board-game session. You will do your best to win the game, but you will be well-mannered. You will not accuse players of cheating, unless you have proof.
Of course you may vigorously object to me "strangling" you. I have not intended one sentence of my post as protesting against that. You have made several posts arguing for more nations to attack me. This is of course entirely acceptable posts, even more, they are welcome. I as well as anyone else want diplomatic activity.
That you so utterly misinterpret my post is a mystery.
To me, and I guess anyone else, a GM that uses his powers to enhance his own position in the game basically cheats. If you are of another opinion you may say so but then I guess you are alone in the universe and do not belong in our game. We want honest people in the game.
That I will use this glitch of yours to “cover” an attack would be exactly a cheat according to the definition above.
As I have written I did not see that you mentioned you had this problem and besides you had some 3 months notice before I attacked - plenty of time to ask for a rehost.
I expect an apology for this accusation of cheating.
Here I am not sure whether you mean
a) I deny although I have seen the chat
b) or that I merely intentionally try and avoid the chat to be able to deny
I pay very little attention to the chat for the simple reason that I focus on the game, not to be able to “deny” that I have seen what people write. And I can promise you that I will continue to do so. If you cannot accept this (and that Aladar assists in GMing) then this is not your game. If you need a GM then pause the game and call for his attention. Whether other GMs perform differently is up to them.
Item a) is an accusation of cheating while b) is merely insulting. Regardless if it is a) or b) an apology is again expected.
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Let me make this very clear: you may do anything in the game as the rules allow. You may do any diplomacy you want. You may portrait me as a devious, treacherous, megalomaniac player. But you may not make accusations of cheating unless you have proof.
You will be a fox and a wolf while playing and making diplomacy, but you will be a gentleman in your behaviour.
If you still, after reading this whole post, do not understand the wolf/fox-gentleman distinction and what is expected from you then I give up and you will have to leave the game.