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Multiplayer Code of Ethics



Playing MP over the Internet means spending time with people whom often you don’t know. A lot of games are ruined because of inadequate behavior or simply misunderstandings.

I wrote this as a guideline for serious players. You may use all or part of it as you see fit, but I believe that if everyone agrees upfront on the “rules of conduct” the experience will be more enjoyable for everyone involved.

I hope you will find this useful. Please feel free to enrich it but try keeping it simple and rational. Ultimately this may become a common set of guidelines serious players will adhere to.

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1. Respect the other players

Be courteous, avoid using foul language (as a guideline don’t use language you would not use at work, with your family etc.) and don’t make your comments too personal. No one likes to be called names.

2. Be on time

Just like any other appointment agree a time with the other gamers and stick to it. If you can’t make it, let them know via e-mail, ICQ or posts in the HOI forum

3. Agree the rules in advance

If you feel strongly about a house rule or a bug in the system let the others know about it beforehand and agree how to play. Agree on the style of play, some favor a “gentlemen’s approach” (e.g maximal avoidance of exploits), others prefer the “anything goes” style, while others still look for historicity. There is nothing wrong with any style but different styles are not compatible and may lead to frustration, just agree it in advance.

4. Be flexible

Have a list of countries/scenarios you are willing to play. Don’t insist on playing always one country; don’t insist on playing a minor when there are not enough players for the major powers. Be ready to accept some “house rules”.

5. Everybody’s got to learn

Be tolerant of others mistakes and allow newcomers to play with you. The more people learn to play this game right, the more opponents and enjoyment you will have. Conversely if you are a beginner in MP, don’t insist on playing tough countries like Germany. Go for Italy, Nat China, France or Canada for your first few games.

6. Don’t just disappear.

You have another commitment? Let the others know about it as far in advance as possible (e.g. : “I can only play for another hour”) .. Don’t just leave a game in progress.
You think your situation is hopeless? Agree with your allies and the others the best course of action: fight to the bitter end, concede, start a new game, let the AI play on for your country, find another player or maybe take another country.

7. Keep your allies happy

They depend on you, don’t let them down. Let them know from time to time what you are doing/ planning. Ask for their opinion before making any rash/bold move. In particular, declarations of war and major operations should be discussed with your allies (at minimum inform them in advance).
 
Nice post Tomar. I haven’t played MP in some time, some people here know me some don’t. Your post is a good start but there is a lot you left out. I ran a group for a long time and in my opinion we ran through the absolute gambit of MP issues. Being removed from it for months I can look back at it now somewhat objectively and piece together a lot of what happened. So I think in your work here you need to add a section for “Out of Character Relations” Here are a few suggestions.

1.Don’t become involved in other players disputes: When your in a group and Player A has an issue with Player B and decides they may want to leave, or threaten to quit let them make the decision and resolve it and don’t attempt to mediate, you always end up being the bad guy.

2.Admit your shortcomings: If your wrong admit it, if you make a mistake step up and take your lumps. If something goes sour and there is an issue in the group be it game play preferences, exploits or dissatisfaction with other players, make your opinion and your view crystal clear to everyone. Upon doing so, when rebuked, and rebuked well admit your mistake/error and move on.

3.Understand the personal nuances of other players: You have to have a degree of social and psychological understanding of human nature. Key here is to understand there is a human on the other side of the screen and that person has pride, integrity, ego, and all the shortcomings you do. Just because you share a common interest in HOI, doesn’t mean you’re like minded. That person isn’t you, and as you get to know the person you may not like them at all, it maybe someone whom you personally detest because of some comment in email or some assertion made you disagree with. That’s fine, but remember there is only one thing you have absolute control over and that is yourself, worrying about what other people think and might say is wasted energy.

4.Don’t take things to seriously: Often you will find players who exchange email with others and discuss their personal opinions of other players. That person might be you, don’t take it to seriously and remember when the computer goes off your back in reality. Unless you choose otherwise the people you meet in HOI MP will never be more then words on a screen, on one small board, in one small section of the web, never forget that. However tempting it might be, or however specific your email/icq documentation maybe, don’t bad mouth players and take personal shots, if you have something to say, say it to them directly. Remember there will be people who don’t do this, who engage in the rumor/slander of other players, bottom line preserve the integrity of the other player and you preserve your own.

Again, nice post Tomar, but there has to be an “etiquette” to conducting your personal relationships within the group, not just in game conduct. My experience with MP was very positive overall save for a few bumps in the road. The key is to remember it’s a game and the minute it becomes something other then fun due to a member of your group its time to cut your losses and move on no matter what may be the fallout from your action.


**Disclaimer: This post is not directed at anyone person, or is meant to slight anyone. It is a recommendation to the author to add items based on my personal experience. To those that I had MP dealings with this post isn’t to suggest blame, fault or to slander any player or their actions, it is written and meant to be taken in the spirit of enhancing others MP experience, based on my own. If anyone has an issue with this post, PM me or PM a mod. **

Odin
 
Hey Odin,

wondered where you had trotted off to.

I think you hit the nail on the head.
 
Originally posted by Diefledermas
Hey Odin,

wondered where you had trotted off to.

I think you hit the nail on the head.

How you been Die?

Hope all is well with you man, recently moved to central mass been in flux. Anyway OT here, I will pop in a little more here and there.

Love your cookbook btw, nice work.

Odin