While we're on the topic of giving special mechanics to the HRE à la EU4, I'd like to make a suggestion/request based on the reverse line of thinking: take the way the HRE works in EU4 and use it to model Feudalism in CK3! More specifically, use EU4's mechanic for dealing with external attacks against vassals of a realm.
In Europa Universalis 4, whenever you attack a member of the HRE, you have to deal not only with the polity you're attacking and its allies, but also with the Emperor (i.e. the liege of the realm). It always struck me as odd that EU4 (which portrays the early modern period) has a better mechanic for representing this aspect of Feudalism (even if it's only for one country) than CK2, which ended up working a lot more like a modern, unified state.
Now, I'm not a middle ages historian, so please correct me if I'm wrong but, as I recall, the protection given by a liege to any one vassal did not include the participation of the other lords of the realm. As of CK2, all wars are total wars between two or more states that throw every vassal into the fight, no matter the scope of the casus belli, or who is being targeted and for what title. Apart from being ahistorical, this creates bizarre situations like the infamous WW0 between France and the HRE that always happens one month into the 1066 start.
Adopting a more EU4-like approach could fix this, as well as improve on other areas of the CK experience. So instead of being forced by the game rules to always attack the top liege of your target's realm, you'd be able to directly attack your actual target. Instead of having to fight all the lords and ladies of, say, France just to take...

Zeeland, you'd only have to fight that county's holder, plus their allies and liege. Then, with time, new tech, the passing of laws, etc., a liege could slowly centralize their realm, which by the end of the game would give them the ability to call other vassals (that would not normally be implicated in the conflict) to any war.
So, to recap, this could make it all a little more historically accurate, but also make way for some general improvements to the game: the security of a vassal's holdings in any given realm would hinge a lot more on the liege's capacity of providing protection to them; you wouldn't see weird, anachronistic medieval total wars; and you could tie it into a realm-centralization mechanic, something for which I and a few other people have been clamoring since CK2.
What say you?