Insest event firing when it shouldn't

[CountCristo]

Can anyone tell me why event WoL.102 is firing when I try to seduce my wife?

I have changed the code around that trigger to this:

        effect = {
            hidden_tooltip = {
                FROM = {
                    opinion = {
                        who = ROOT
                        modifier = opinion_seducing
                        years = 1000
                    }
                    
                    if = {
                        limit = {
                            is_close_relative = ROOT
                            NOT = { is_main_spouse = ROOT }
                            NOT = { is_consort = ROOT }
                            NOT = { religion = messalian }
                            NOT = { religion = zoroastrian }
                        }
                        character_event = { id = WoL.102 days = 1 } # Warning - Incest scandal risk
                        break = yes
                    }

Which I thought would make it such that it would only fire if the close relative was not my spouse (or consort).
Yet the event still fires

Any help appreciated!