Looking for (specific) mod recommendations

[Silverbow]

Given the immense amount of mods available on Steam Workshop, I could use some help finding the best ones for what I'm looking for. That being:
- choosing starting leader traits and not having them disappear if election fails
- doing away with pre-set equal starting systems and instead getting to explore the starting system from scratch
- improved diplomacy (though I doubt something like federation merging exists, it would be awesome)
- more anomalies
- more archeological digs
- more events
- more planetary features & more types of planets, for more colony variety
- more AI personalities/civics/traits (but within reason)
- something to limit the number of habitats or allow dismantling them
- ability to have medium 4-arm spiral galaxy, or ideally a real Milky Way map

Thanks, any help is appreciated.

 

[Gundabadguy]

Here’s the More Events Mod for more events and anomalies: https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=727000451&searchtext=More+events

 

[G S Palmer]

- more archeological digs

• Archaeology Story Pack
• Ziaskehorn: An Ancient Relics Story

- more events

• (As mentioned above): More Events Mod
• Expanded Events
• Precursor Story Pack
• Dynamic Political Events

- more planetary features & more types of planets, for more colony variety

• Guilli's Planet Modifiers and Features
• Planetary Diversity (and the submods listed on it's workshop page)

- more AI personalities/civics/traits (but within reason)

• Personalities: More AI Personalities
• Traits: Simple Additional Traits
• Origins: Extra Origins

Also, not on your list, but I would highly recommend the Stellaris Music Expansion Pack. It has a bunch of specially-composed tracks specifically for Stellaris, and they're really beautiful and fit the game extremely well.