Well, I am not quite sure if this is a problem due to my configuration of my computer or not but so far as I have observed it isn't. Anyway my problem is every time I join a game with my friend, the second the game unpauses I get a text box outside of the victoria game terminating the program. We tried hosting four times, two times with me hosting two times with him hosting. The results we got were interesting. When I host, he drops from the game, and goes back into the default victoria window just as if he had lost his connection and I stay in the game. When I host I am instantly dropped from the program completely, and he stays in the game. Now I don't know if this is due to him having a low quality computer but why would it drop me from the game via an end program error? I am quite confused hope someone out there can help me out.