Im still not sure what are the differences between the diplomacy and relationship tabs? They seem more or less alike. Also i get different readings when i look at the relationship of neighbouring rulers. For instance if i click on my Kokujin state it might show the ruler next door to me with a dark mauve colour. If i click on his state it might show my state as green towards him. So im still rather baffled how all these tabs meant to work out? Any ideas or clarification much appreciated thanks.