Oh, right. Moldavia being the primary war target probably also had an effect on Hungary's decision to take land or not. I probably got that switched up in my head and thought Lithuania was the target.
Favors - that's interesting, it sounds like they're fairly versatile. Is the manpower you can request an actual helpful amount, or do you find that it doesn't make much of a difference?
Yeah, who do they think they are? XD Is there a penalty for refusing favors?
I will definitely also check out Jak's guide, since he seems like a wealth of good information!
@VILenin I pulled up the screen to check and remembered a couple more useful things for Favors, as well as one I'd never seen before (wonder if it was added in a DLC? - I'm using the subscription, so I have all the DLCs w/o paying extra). The new one is one I might be able to use someday, which is "Return Core Province" -- you can ask someone who owes you Favors (generally only an ally) to return one of your core provinces. Nice! This might have rejiggered some of my past strategies with certain neighbors if I'd known.
Some others I'd known about was:
1) Break Alliance -- I've used this more than once, to avoid ending up in a war with an ally, and I've even allied a country previously (Denmark I think?) in order to eventually ask them to break their alliance with the Teutonic Order (which was and is a target of mine).
2) Request Relative as Heir -- In some cases it matters if your dynasty is in control of another country, and I've used this once or twice. I don't remember what all the advantages are, besides relations, but I think it can also end up in inheritance on occasion. So you can spend Favors to get your cousin in when the ruler dies, essentially.
3) Trade Favors for Sailors -- Important if you're low on sailors, which I've never been.
The Soldiers you get from this Favor action are significant. It's "6 months" of Manpower, which I assume means however many soldiers that country would generate/add to their own total over the course of 6 months. Generally this translates into a few to several thousand soldiers, which can definitely help if you're low on Manpower.
I'm sure if you refuse a request to trade ducats or soldiers from an ally there's a small relations penalty, but if they're already your ally this should go away before it causes any rift.
So there was probably a 50-80 year period where I was asking my ally for ducats every opportunity (I think you can ask once every 5 years). There were also 5-7 times when I asked for Manpower when I was trying to build up. You can't request Manpower if your ally is at war, and so often if you're at war and out of Manpower it cannot be used because your ally is fighting alongside you.
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