Bad quitting - a solution?

[ForzaA]

Either you continue playing, even if you don't enjoy it that much anymore, since you owe it to the group. Which would be honourable.

Or you just quit when you don't enjoy it anymore, be it because of losing a CoT of because you grow tired of eu2 mp. Which would be selfish.

Interesting position, but is it really so simple?

let us draw a bad analogy

Let's assume you're a third year student that wants to have some fun drinking.
So what do you do? Let's assume yuo go and connect yourself with a group of students. (I have no idea what the english word is, in Dutch it's corps)
You have a few fun nights drinking, playing innocent pranks (farting pillows and the like) all in all, you have a great time.
Then, one fateful day, they tell you that, to really be part of the group, you have to run around in a bar naked. They'll undoubtedly have a LOT of fun that night.

If you say "no sorry, I won't" and leave- are you then a bad quitter?