I dont think its even possible to force even ratio by some way. After i got 3 first children as females i tryed to save/load some and discovred, it dosnt help. They probably save random numbers seed in file. So i played it as is. Here my colony at Sol 31, pinned colonists are all i have by birth order.
Important techs to rush in order which i go:
1. Mars Crowdfunding (+1k money), Drone Swarm (+2 drones from 1st hub)
2. Earth-Mars Initiative, Explorer AI (+100 reseach each)
3. Advanced Martian Engines (40 fuel rocket)
4. Soil Adaptation (Farm construction)
5. Martian Education (education is key good working economy)
First Rocket:
Fuel Refinery: 2
Drone Hub: 1
Transport
Drone: 4
Concrete: 5 (for 1st Wind Generator)
Food 5
Polymers: 10
Machine Parts: 20
Electronics: 5
Total: 1520$
Second Rocket:
Explorer
Food: 25
Machine Parts: 60
Electronics: 5
Total: 1680$
4000$-1540$-1660$ = 800$
800$+1000$(from tech) = 1800$ spend on research = 9k research
I restarded game by 2 steps, 1st, im restarting until i have Drone Swarm and Advanced Martian Engines available to reseach from start, plus Mars Crowdfunding must be reachable shortly, then im making save and restarting until i get double sexy officers. Both steps takes something like 20-30 mins to complete. And then i start to play.
I will attach save files from each of first 7 sols. You can see all i do by steps.
What i do after rocket landed:
1st aim: Wind generator+Concrete Extractor, Transport helping to gather 7 metals and deliver it quickly
2nd aim: Sensor Tower. We have to scan sector with water as fast as possible.
3nd aim: Fuel production. Wind generators, Water Extractor, cables, pipes. Transport helps with metal.
4th aim: 2 more concrete extractors, we need alot of concrete for dome and buildings. Have to scan these sectors before we can build extractors. We have Sensor Tower already, so its quick
5th aim: Scaning sector with polymers on land, then gathering it. Need for gardens (we have 10 for dome already)
Drone Hub is placing instantly after Drone Swarm researched, its my 1st tech