I fancied playing a nice long game as this tiny kingdom, goal being to eventually inherit and conquer all of Iberia, plus I've never ever played as a kingdom that had women inheriting on the same grounds as men and I thought it'd be nice to have lots of female rulers since in 900+ hours of playing CK2 I've probably only ever had 2 or 3.
Anywho, I'm struggling to get started. When you start the game your ruler is in his late 50's and his heir is a woman who is married (normally, not matrilinearily) to a Muslim count of the massive Muslim kingdom in Iberia. She already has two sons with him. So when my ruler dies and my daughter inherits I divorce the Muslim and matrilinearily marry some guy and have a child... except the Muslim children (not my dynasty) still stand to inherit.
It's a messy situation. I doubt I'd ever be able to gain enough money to assassinate both children in her lifetime, nor would I be able to get enough prestige to disinherit them through the decisions diplomacy panel. What to do?
Anywho, I'm struggling to get started. When you start the game your ruler is in his late 50's and his heir is a woman who is married (normally, not matrilinearily) to a Muslim count of the massive Muslim kingdom in Iberia. She already has two sons with him. So when my ruler dies and my daughter inherits I divorce the Muslim and matrilinearily marry some guy and have a child... except the Muslim children (not my dynasty) still stand to inherit.
It's a messy situation. I doubt I'd ever be able to gain enough money to assassinate both children in her lifetime, nor would I be able to get enough prestige to disinherit them through the decisions diplomacy panel. What to do?