I had a ruler have a bastard son (speaking of which, why are there no bastard daughters?) with a woman who was already his friend. At least, that's what the event led me to believe. The woman was already his friend, and he got the "your wife is out of town" event. Why was it, then, that the bastard's ID page had only his father and not his mother, even if the mother was known (at least to the player)?