It would be cool if, when the spouse of the player inherits land independent to the player's land, the leading party in the marriage (the husband, unless it's matrilineal) can either force the other spouse to surrender the titles to him/her or give him all their titles. This is similar to what really happened in medieval Europe, and goes along with the Stark fears of Sansa inheriting Winterfell, and thus giving it to Lannister control.
Forcing a spouse to abdicate to you or their child would be unpopular among the lords of the region and have a -30 penalty for the spouse, but is much like what actually happened. Maybe there could be events for spouses to willingly surrender lands to the leading party? Or perhaps lower-level spouses would be willing to become a vassal?
Forcing a spouse to abdicate to you or their child would be unpopular among the lords of the region and have a -30 penalty for the spouse, but is much like what actually happened. Maybe there could be events for spouses to willingly surrender lands to the leading party? Or perhaps lower-level spouses would be willing to become a vassal?