You surrender after you've been defeated, not before.
Edit: let me expound a little.
Your argument is basically against planetary anti-orbital defenses. But your rationale is that they might fail, and thus serve as a grounds for nuking the planet.
This isn't a justification for not putting in planetary defenses, it is justification for knowing when to put up the white flag and give up because nobody is coming to help you out of this dire situation, even if you have some defenses left. If you can't win, you surrender.
I just don't see the rationale of taking that all the way back to 'well we shouldn't even try to deter an invasion using these methods, whether they work or not.'
Edit: let me expound a little.
Your argument is basically against planetary anti-orbital defenses. But your rationale is that they might fail, and thus serve as a grounds for nuking the planet.
This isn't a justification for not putting in planetary defenses, it is justification for knowing when to put up the white flag and give up because nobody is coming to help you out of this dire situation, even if you have some defenses left. If you can't win, you surrender.
I just don't see the rationale of taking that all the way back to 'well we shouldn't even try to deter an invasion using these methods, whether they work or not.'