
I’m reasonably certain that, regardless of gender, Blaat is an adult.
(In English, the terms ‘boy‘ and ‘girl’ are for children. Thanks to racism and sexism, using those terms for adults is risky. It’s better to use ‘man‘ and ‘woman.’ You can add the adjective ’young’ if it’s important to emphasize their youth for some reason. —I am sure you used the term innocently, and am making this post because I believe you’d prefer to know that it could be misunderstood.)
Thanks.
And sorry if I caused any offense.
And yeah, I'm certain Blaat is an adult too.
Well, what I meant was that I never realised they were a woman (lol, almost wrote girl again... Just seems very ingrained). Always took them for a man, albeit I don't know why.
In Danish it's different. Boy and girl very much can be used for adults too. And girl often is used for women, especially in informal speech.
And women often call men they are attracted to boys - well, not the word for boy that's generally used, but a different word for boy. It's complicated. There's like a dozen words for boy/man and like a dozen words for girl/woman. At least.
In fact, the common word for woman itself is the genitive declination of another word for woman, which used to solely refer to married women, but now also can be used for older women too.
But yeah, women will call men boys, not men. To give an example. Similarly some terms men use for women mean girl too, rather than woman. It's complicated, and also really depends on context, formality, etc.
Btw, the common word for girl actually means any unmarried woman no matter the age, whereas the word for woman, as mentioned, referred to married women. But the word for girl and the common word for woman (the genitive of the word for a married woman/older woman) both are decoupled from marital status these days. Same goes for words for boy/man which also used to denote marital status.
Not sure how calling a woman girl can be racist, though. But I'm probably missing some American cultural context, as to me calling a woman girl isn't sexist either, but I definitely can see how it can be seen as that if your language is structured way differently to ours.
Sadly I'll likely be unable to refrain from ever usign girl for women, as it's just way too ingrained and deeply ingrained ways of thinking/speaking just are super hard to change. So I hope that can be looked through if I mess up.
In fact, back int he Old Norse days we used to have even more terms for men and women, and a term for girl that's not disappeared from the language used to mean an adolescent girl, as opposed to a girl who was an unmarried girl/woman no matter the age (i.e. whether child or adult) as opposed to a woman who was a married adult. Not sure what a little girl, i.e. a non adolescent child, would be called back then.
In any case, the term for adolescent girl disappeared in the past couple centuries as things were "simplified"* and now it only exists in the context of Norwegian women, as in Norwegian the term meaning adolescent girl in Old Norse became the term for girl and the term that meant unmarried girl/woman no matter the age disappeared.
So in Norway it'd be even worse, as there they linguisitcally speaking call e.g. their adult women's handball team little girls. Not that most people will know all this, mind. To them it's just how the language works, and many of the older meanings either are gone or implicitly/deeply buried so people don't realise them when they use one term over another. Which also is where the * from before comes. It was simplified in the sense that it got less complex. But in the process it became way way harder to understand for outsiders, as a lot of the connections were lost. Declinations were lost, aside from where they weren't. See women which is genitive declination of married woman as an extreme - in almost all cases nouns aren't declined ever anymore. And it led to fixed terms/sayings that make no sense unless you were born into it, as those use the old rules dating back to Old Norse, rules which are so watered down by now that they're essentially gone in present day usage. And which word to use when wont' be understandable by looking at their meaning, as the submeanings that used to differentiate them and determine in whihc context which is used are more or less gone, but they're still lagely used the way they always have been, as that's just "how it's done", without most peopel being able to answer why if you ask them.
Like, ask a group of women who're salivating over some men, who're clearly in their 30s, that walked past why they're calling them (little) boys and they'll look at you confused, as the word they used between themselves just has become the word women use about attractive men, despite how it means a boy - both a little boy, but also a boy who's a teen and can also mean a young adult (as in somebody's who's an adult, but not much over).
Similarly you might find a group of men use a term meaning girl (not the common one for girl, but that might be uesd too) for some women they're checking out.
In that sense many of those terms have detached from the age connections, and rather can be used for all ages. To a certain degree, at least. You likely won't call an 80 years old a girl or a boy.
And they often just are the default, at elast in informal talk.
So yeah, all this was to try and explain why I used girl, not woman, and that I meant no harm by it and it literally is cultural behaviour that seems to traverse the language barrier poorly.