Sterkarm, Unreasonable? Stupid? Anymore stupid then taking a duchy in your area where I have to balance either the politics of You, Norway and Russia or You, Norway, and Germany? Lets go over this. Theres a player in England, Iberia, Russia, Scandinavia, Hungary, Italy(two actually), and Poland, I know I missed some because theres 12 and I only listed 8. Where exactly won't I be near another player? Besides Byzantine lands in Transoxania? Sorry if I don't wish to be Polotsk and at the whim of you and/or Russia with little or no way to expand except at the expence of either of you, Russia, or Germany or in a similar state in Germany. I really see no differnce between your choices for me and mine. In either case I'm near two powerful players, but in my choice I have room to expand not at the expence of a powerful Christian Kingdom, and importantly in my book as this is my first competitive MP experince, not at the expence of a player.
Or are you just miffed I don't wish to play into your hand?
King of Men, where exactly won't I be in the sphere of influence of one or more nations? Either of the Indipendant Russian Duchys I will be wedged between 2 or 3 powerful Kingdoms. Brandenburg is already part of one, and Milano seems to be starting touble for them alreay and it seems many other players would be interested in doing the same, I see no point in adding to it.
Ascalon, while in the influence and threat of the KoJ and their big brother does, in my book, have more options then others wedged between powerful players and powerful AI. With Ascalon, if a peace is reached, I can go into Egypt, Arabia, Basra, or even return to the fold. While a early confrontation with human players seem inevitable it is not impossible to survive(though recent tests with the AI seem to not go in my favor). This is my first competitive MP game and I'm already in a PBEM Diplomacy game, I don't feel like another as Polotisk, or Brandenburg, or who ever surrounded by a sea of Christian Europe.
If there is a concencus against Ascalon I will look else where, but until then I'm sticking to my guns.